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letra de the other half - murray hume

for anybody who are looking for a ‘humsafar’ (partner) who is fond of the same traveling destinations, same eateries, very same movies, same music, very same wall hangings, same tv set channels or has the very same sense of humour, very same honeymoon plans, practically very same everything, and are struggling to find one particular, may god bless an individual with a similar partner, why not a clone. obviously, of the reverse gender

here, i am discussing specifically about a gentleman who was simply known in our locality since (what men secretly want) ‘banku-kaku’ or banku dad. if you don’t manage to have significantly information about kolkata’s suburb lifestyle, all the grown up men listed here are either kaku (chacha or perhaps paternal uncle) or jethu (tau or elder familiar uncle). no one will captivate you if called mom (maternal uncle) and the almighty knows why. anyway, this specific dehydrated banku kaku magnificent little overweight wife chumki masi had probably nothing at all in common. they were definitely not ‘the same’ and both of these were ashamed not to end up being ‘the same’. probably their particular marriage was the biggest automobile accident after titanic. by the way, often the intelligent reader would have by now guessed that for the same mysterious reason, all the women could well be called masi (mousi as well as maternal aunt) and not pisi (bua or paternal aunt)

when i got my initially job, this ‘kaku-masi’ husband and wife invited me for dinner for a sunday evening. from the things i remember, the evening seemed to be memorable. on that argumentative evening, i understood the way difficult it is to become a evaluate. for every single issue, each of them used to look at my family for support with a couple pairs of ruthlessly powerful eyes. why jyoti basu doesn’t smile, why master bedrooms should always have white surfaces, why banku kaku’s employer is not a gentleman plus more – the topics have been gushing down like an influx

i finally understood exactly why they had decided to invite myself. there were hundreds and thousands of approaching undecided issues in their lifestyles and they had never located a patient listener who can give a judgement. i noticed they were enjoying this bi-polarization and it kept them still living. kaku was undisciplined for the core and masi has been most meticulous – what a man wants from a woman. kaku has been an uncontrollable spendthrift although masi was miserly. kaku was a communist and masi was a follower of loknath baba

i’m sure, till nowadays they are still arguing, whether it be a romantic winter evening, any sultry summer noon, any flowery autumn morning or even a rainy night. they never ever thought of separation because they are amigo like light and darkness. they kept the balance of these family-boat by rowing that in two opposite guidelines. they were not enemies, these people were just complementary to each other

i got so influenced by this bi-polar couple that when i started out searching for a partner for me personally, i never looked for a cultural-clone. as in our socio-political method, flags of different opinions retain india going, the contributory thinking pattern of a pair makes a family vibrant and also balanced. of course , you have to be democratic enough to respect the particular opposition’s voice. be a master and there will be an apprehensive calm in your house

many lovers i know separated departments between themselves. for major outside issues, the husband had the final word and for domestic issues just like where to go, whom to request, what to buy etc . the particular wife had the last word. these people were also happy. in your case, the most effective suggestion i can make will be – choose your own approach!

- murray hume

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